LGBT in the Eyes of a Young Christian Girl

Friday, April 17, 2015

As an opening, or some sort of disclaimer, I'd like to state that everything I'm about to write on this post isn't meant to hurt or offend any group of people. I am not trying to spark an argument, nor am I trying to "promote" Christianity in any way. I just felt that I needed to take a stand on what I believe in, and clarify some things in a righteous manner to clear some perspectives, both for me and for others.

My name is Joanne and I am a Christian. I'm a high school student, therefore I well enough know what I'm going to talk about. I follow Jesus Christ, I believe in all that He is. I believe in the existence of Heaven, and in the Bible, and in the power of the Holy Spirit. Spiritually and personally, I am His.

But I'm not here to talk about religion. I'm here because I feel like there is an obvious gap or difference between what Jesus is, and what the church is. Globally, I've seen far too many issues about how the church treats people who happen to be homosexual, or transgender, or anything alike. I know the Bible, and I know Christ, and I'm willing to go to my grave saying that what some violent churches have portrayed is nothing godly. If you happen to be a part of LGBT, on behalf of hopefully Christians in general, I wish to start by saying I'm sorry about how some churches have treated you. Please don't let some bad people let you believe that all Christians are the same. At least to me, "God hates fags"? That is never true. Because my God does not hate. It's just not what He does. 

I attend a Christian school, and I won't hide the fact that yes, as Christians, we are taught, and so we believe, that homosexuality, bisexuality is wrong. Against the Bible. Against what God initially wanted in the humankind He created. I'm not saying I disagree. I am a Christian, and my job is to stand up for the Bible, and for Christ.

You're right. I can't stand against it. I have to say I disagree on homosexuality or bisexuality. However, I have nothing against other people who happen to be homosexual, bisexual, or transgender. Here's what I believe: I must live the way that Jesus lived. I must do what Jesus would have done. That is what Christianity is about. And the thing that people forget is that Jesus hates the sin, but loves the sinner. 

If I happen to have friends in the future who are part of LGBT, then so be it. If the girl in my campus wants to talk to me about her girlfriend, she should feel free. If a boy next door tells me he has a boyfriend, then that's okay. If I share a class with a girl who then tells me she wasn't born a female, then I'll just nod and listen to her story.

Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender people are people nonetheless. I will treat my fellow humans as humans, and that's it. I will do it because Jesus has never taught us to hate. Jesus once had dinner in the house of a corrupt, non-believing tax-collector. Jesus helped prostitutes. He heals and washes the feet of sinners with his own bare hands. I don't plan on pointing fingers and labelling homosexuals as "sinners", but I do believe that each person is entitled to their own beliefs. The people of the LGBT community simply don't have the same beliefs as I do. And that's okay.

As an example, just because Muslims aren't supposed to eat pork, doesn't mean they should go out into the world and stop everyone from eating pork. Or do you find Muslim women forcefully putting on hijabs on other women, even ones with different religions? Screaming and insisting that hair must be covered? No! Because that's not what religion is! It's supposed to be sacred, and personal.

I have learned that avoiding or looking down on people just because of their sexuality will get me absolutely nowhere. And frankly, that sounds pretty evil. So whoever you are, whatever you believe in, whatever your sexuality happens to be, I am okay with that. Yes, I am wearing a cross around my necklace, but my God is a God of love and acceptance.

Please feel free to leave a comment below with your opinions, or questions even. I'll try to answer as reasonably as I can!Thank you for reading all the way to this sentence. I hope this post has encouraged you to understand a little deeper, and I do hope you find at least a bit of goodness in what I've written.


  1. Your thoughts are really beautiful :) I agree with you that all people are people no matter their religion or who they love. I believe there're too much hatred in our world and that's pretty sad.


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  3. Nicely written. That is so true. God hates the sin, not the sinner. Hello from a fellow Christian. It's so refreshing to read Christian thoughts from a 16-year old. May your passion for Christ never fade. :)

  4. well said. i think you really touched on points here about the issue that speaks volumes on what it really is to be a true Christian! :D

    Have a great week ahead!
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  5. As a person who has only been on your blog twice, ( this being my second) this post alone makes me want to come back for more!! You seem like spmeone who's not afraid to stand alone for something as long as it's right and I really dig that!! ( Also, I've seen you comment on which is how I found your blog too ;) )

  6. Hey! I stumbled on this post a while back and bookmarked it yet only now have I got round to reading it and I'm so glad that I did. I'm a Muslim and I have the exact same thoughts and opinions on this topic as you yet I've never been able to articulate my thoughts on LGBT because I find that it's a touchy subject. You're completely right about always standing up for your religion and it's not like we're being spiteful to people who are homosexual/transgender and it's not that we hate them for who they are, we just have a difference in opinion.

    Can I just say that it's lovely to see someone who has such a strong faith in God since it's very rare nowadays and people are being led astray far too easily.

    Great post and so well written!!

    -Nabeela x

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