Things I Need to Tell Myself

Friday, May 26, 2017

  1. Crying is okay. In your earlier years, you might've heard that it was an unnecessary act, but now, growing up, you'll find that crying is very much necessary.
  2. Both physical and mental healing take time.
  3. Try to avoid driving on days where you're struggling with some anxiety or low self-esteem. You just don't want to end up making bad decisions from behind the steering wheel.
  4. But if you do need to drive, do it with extra caution. You are safe, you are present, your life is valued. Repeat these things to yourself enough times for you to be calm.
  5. You are making progress everyday. Slow progress is still progress, and just because you're not moving as quickly as you'd expected yourself to, you are still moving.
  6. Drink water, drink water, drink water.
  7. The future is terrifying only if you convince yourself that it is.
  8. Eat food, Jo. Eat real food, eat wholesome food, eat good food, eat any food, eat the food you have been blessed with. But my God, stop fearing it so much.
  9. Many people are unaware of your struggles. When they make commentaries toward you that seem to pinpoint these battles you're fighting inside, battles they don't know of, learn to cope and receive it lightheartedly. It's not their fault, and it's not yours either.
  10. Embrace a broken heart. It'll make you create things you'll be proud of.
  11. There are going to be times where you feel like you're overreacting. Like you're just "overly sensitive" or "exaggerating". These voices will linger but let them be. Besides, how else are you going to find writing material?
  12. Breathe.
I'll write again soon.


  1. Thank You - I read this as if you were reading them out to me - and I definitely needed it! I can most definitely relate to 5, 7, and 8 (thanks for the reminder)

    Hope everything is well with you - and keep telling yourself these things, you're a strong and amazing woman who can handle anything! ;)

    JosieVictoriaa // Fashion, Travel & Lifestyle

  2. I love this for a blogpost idea :) You've wrote it so well and I love all of these tips to yourself. My favourites are that it's okay to cry and healing takes time, they are both very true and I'm also trying to teach myself them.

    Keep up the great work and have a lovely weekend!

    Chloe @

  3. I would say I agree with most of these, specially the last one. It's SO important to just take a step back and simply breathe. In today's world everything is so fast-paced and I feel like we are all overachievers and it can get a bit too much! x

    Ariadna || RAWR BOWS

    1. So much yes on the overachievers thing you said. :) Thanks for commenting!

  4. I love how real this is. You totally reminded me of a lot of the important things in life.


  5. So glad I stumbled across your blog. 7, 8 and 9 completely struck a chord with me. I want to print this list off and pin it on my mirror as a reminder. Can't wait to read more of your posts! xx

  6. Thank you for your great post my dear

  7. These are all so great, I love the embrace the broken heart one

  8. Well done girl.
    So inspirational.

  9. I've told myself all of these things at various points in time. Big hugs to you! x


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